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Love & Performance
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€2.199,00
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Love & Performance is an evidence-based coaching program for executives and high-achieving couples that understands love, performance, and fun as trainable behaviors. Instead of talking about problems, we change specific reaction patterns under stress, precisely where closeness, tenderness, and lightness are typically lost. Through a clear mental framework, couples learn to remain productive, act in a connected way, and rediscover joy in everyday life. Measurable, practical, and sustainable.
For whom does this program work particularly well?
For high-achieving couples and leaders who can take responsibility. For people who want to actively shape their relationship instead of analyzing it. And for couples who want to experience fun, tenderness, and performance simultaneously, not one after the other.
Why is this program different from traditional couples counseling?
Because we don't explain relationships, we train them . Love, performance, and fun are understood as concrete behaviors that must be readily available under stress. Instead of talking about problems, we change reaction patterns. This makes closeness, tenderness, and performance possible simultaneously, even in everyday life.
How do you combine performance and closeness without one destroying the other?
Others work when it's quiet. We train precisely when there's pressure. Under stress, automatic patterns like fight, retreat, and control kick in. We make these patterns visible and replace them with regulated, effective behaviors. This way, connection is maintained even when things get challenging.
Why does your program create fun again without kitsch or showmanship?
Fun isn't an event, but a byproduct of safety, clarity, and positive reinforcement. When stress is regulated and reactions no longer escalate, ease arises automatically. We deliberately create these conditions, allowing joy to return without being artificially generated.
What does "love" mean in our program?
Love isn't shown in intentions, but in actions: how you listen, react, show closeness, and resolve conflicts. We systematically train precisely these behaviors. This ensures that love is reliably present, not dependent on mood, but also when things get uncomfortable.
Our philosophy
✔ Preventive rather than reparative
✔ Positive and resource-oriented
✔ Focus on effective behavior instead of problem analysis
✔ Building stability, closeness and performance
✔ Measurable changes in everyday life
What makes the 2:2 program special?
✔ Femininity and masculinity are clearly differentiated and treated with respect.
✔ Two couples therapists will accompany you simultaneously, offering equal, gender-specific support to both partners.
✔ Patterns are recognized verbally and nonverbally in real time and precisely mirrored.
✔ High emotional security through clear structure, impartiality and presence
✔ Faster learning and sustainable implementation through parallel support and direct reinforcement
Frequently Asked Questions
What is the time commitment of the program?
The program comprises 12 sessions over 3 months. In addition, there are short, practical exercises to be done between sessions. Significant changes are usually noticeable from the first month because new behaviors are consistently practiced and applied directly in everyday life.
How is teamwork structured in general?
We work in three clear steps. First, we establish stability and security within the system. Then, we train specific behavioral patterns that function under pressure. After that, we transfer and anchor these patterns in everyday life until the new reactions become automatic.
How do you work with emotions without it ending in endless conversations?
Emotions aren't talked to death, but rather regulated and harnessed. We help you recognize emotions early, stabilize them physically, and translate them into clear communication. The goal isn't drama or analysis, but presence, connection, and effective action in difficult moments.
What does this have to do with performance coaching?
Relationships are performance systems. Under pressure, it's decided whether you stay connected or fall into old patterns. For us, performance coaching means self-regulation, focus, energy, and clear decisions in everyday life. When you are internally stable, not only does the quality of your relationships increase, but also your leadership skills and overall performance.
What exactly does the 2:2 setting mean?
In the 2:2 setting, you work as a couple simultaneously with two couples therapists. This ensures that both partners receive equal attention, patterns are recognized more precisely both verbally and nonverbally, and are addressed directly in the moment. This accelerates learning and increases emotional security.
Is the program taking place online or in person?
Both are possible. You can work online, on-site (Würzburg and surrounding area), or a combination of both. The crucial factors are the structure and consistent implementation of the exercises. The hybrid approach is often ideal, especially for managers.
How much time needs to be invested outside of the meetings?
Minimal, but consistent. You'll receive short exercises that fit into your daily routine and have a real impact. It's not about more time, but about better habits. Regularity is the key, not effort.